zortified talks about barriers to slashing Spike and Xander on sxandviolence. estepheia discusses her feelings about Repossession. destina starts a meme asking, "If you were an Evil Overlord for your fandom for a day..." what would you ban? See, now I wouldn't just ask about banning, but also what rules would you decree. ("You must all write me an S/X story--now, goddamnit, now!")
Also, you should all go read about nerds because it's, you know, relevant to our fannish lives. It's long, and also a bit long in places, and at times it gets a bit long, but if you keep going, you'll get to a bit that talks about how popularity contests are a template for other venues than high school, and that of course makes me think of LiveJournal Land.
Edited to add: How could I forget to mention this meme?